limerickence (original poster new member #87177) posted at 3:50 PM on Tuesday, May 26th, 2026
Stevesn:
Where is she going. Whom is she with?
I can't be thinking like this. I just can't. I have to be able to trust her. She told me things she didn't have to tell me, and she's under no illusion about where I stand now. We've made real progress and I want to keep it that way.
InkHulk ( member #80400) posted at 6:30 PM on Tuesday, May 26th, 2026
I can't be thinking like this. I just can't. I have to be able to trust her. She told me things she didn't have to tell me, and she's under no illusion about where I stand now.
Trust is the last thing you should do with her right now. That is fully against your self interest.
My xWW confessed, but confessed lies to minimize. She told me things that she could have hidden at times, and at the same time kept massive elements of the affair from me, including things relevant to my daughter’s well being. I know where you are coming from on this, but when you are dealing with someone who has left honesty behind, the possibilities are endless and mind bending.
I think you need to get used to making some waves, friend. You matter.
People are more important than the relationships they are in.
